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To me, that's a turn-off." GF #2: "Some men don't want to invest the time it takes getting to know you.If you don't sleep with them fast enough, they get frustrated and lose interest." GF #3: "Online daters, especially the older ones, are like kids in a candy store, not ever giving anyone a chance because there's always someone else." My Advice: Slow down.I've gathered input from three of my most trusted single girlfriends whose ages range from early 40s to late-50s. We love you guys and want the best for you, so here goes.TOO FAST Maybe you're divorced, newly separated, or have been single forever.Despite the occasional dating disasters and mating missteps, there's a lot to love about you guys.
GF #1: "There seems to be some kind of 'trying on of a girlfriend.' On the first date, I've had a guy take my hand and rub my shoulders, without any words of seduction or romance.You can prepare a lovely Italian meal for a guy, and all of a sudden he brings up the fact his ex made the best lasagna of all time." GF #2: "Men in their fifties can be cynical, especially if they were in a bad marriage.They talk about how awful their ex-wives are, and how much money they had to give them." GF #3: "Getting involved with a guy who's still reeling from his divorce can sometimes feel like he's having an affair, except that the 'other woman' isn't a woman, it's his anger." My Advice: Dump the baggage, dude.Listening and wanting to know everything about her earns you major points." GF #3: "Keep an open mind and heart.Let go of your fear and allow yourself to love again." Here's the good news: Chicks dig fellas in their 50s.
And when you've accrued a decent amount of courtship hours, then you can bang away.